Creating the Foundation of Feeling Loved – Part 2

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How Faulty Beliefs may Affect Behaviour

Let’s have a look at how faulty subconscious beliefs might play out in a child’s behaviour. All of the following have an anxiety base as the child does not feel subconsciously loved, lovable or safe:

  • Being hyperactive, hard to control, nervous, agitated or explosive
  • Experiencing separation anxiety
  • Fighting with siblings or being aggressive with others
  • Having trouble sleeping or experiencing nightmares
  • Being stuck in habits like bedwetting or nail biting
  • Feeling troubled about parental separation or other issues at home
  • Lack of confidence / afraid to try new things

Moreover, if the child’s core subconscious beliefs remain about not being loved, lovable or safe, then they will carry these through to adulthood and make poor life choices based on these faulty beliefs. These may include selecting poor quality partners, struggling financially due to feelings of low self-worth, choosing low-paying jobs and failure to challenge themselves with further education.

As a therapist in private practice for over 20 years, I have seen the common thread repeatedly that as the layers of emotional turmoil are peeled back there is a core underlying (and usually totally subconscious) fear-based belief of being unloved and unlovable. This bears no relationship to the actual circumstances in which a person was raised, which may indeed have been in a loving household. In my training I learned that a whopping 85% of people suffer from low self-esteem!

Did you know that most of our beliefs and behaviour patterns are locked in place in the subconscious mind before age five? Pretty scary really when you consider that most adults are still operating by default with a young child’s beliefs! Surely we must be able to change the programming? How hard can it be?

Wouldn’t it be wonderful to be able to correct any faulty beliefs in the subconscious mind of a child – your child or a friend or relative’s child – of being unloved, unlovable and feeling unsafe in the world as early as possible in that child’s life so they don’t have to endure a disempowered life of suffering later on, feeling somehow not good enough or worthy enough? Just imagine: therapists’ rooms could be empty!

Creating the Foundation for New High Self-Esteem Beliefs in Children … for Life

Luckily, if you have had hypnotherapy as an adult or mind-body energy work or any other therapy that works at the subconscious or soul level, then you may have already found that these faulty subconscious beliefs can be dismantled and replaced with new positive, high self-esteem beliefs.

Of course for children, especially that are under 10, hypnotherapy is not suitable as it requires the person to be able to concentrate and focus on what is being said. You probably already know how challenging it can be to keep a young child quiet and still!

There is, however, a drug-free, non-invasive and totally safe option that works brilliantly to correct a child’s faulty beliefs and a whole lot more. It has been used successfully around the world over the last 40 years and is called SleepTalk®. This two minute strategy parents use with children up to the age of around 16 is an auto-suggestion technique to speak directly with the subconscious mind while their child sleeps. The Goulding SleepTalk® process, which incorporates the ‘Top Hat’ technique, allows the subconscious mind of a child to redefine its belief structure and accept alternate suggestions, which upon awakening become their truth and reality. Not all children need this process but it’s a given that they will all benefit from it.

In my role as an Accredited Goulding SleepTalk® consultant, I have been fascinated to see the number of times I have been training a parent in how to correctly say the SleepTalk® Foundation Statements about being loved and lovable when the parent has burst into tears upon hearing these words back for themselves. Their own inner child is hearing the words that they are loved and lovable, maybe for the first time ever!

I am so passionate about this work that it is now the focus of my therapy work, more so than working with adults in their 30s, 40s and 50s ‘mopping up the long-term damage’ caused by faulty beliefs absorbed in their early childhood years. Working with children through SleepTalk® creates a firm foundation of subconscious beliefs of being loved, lovable and safe, leading to high self-esteem and emotional resilience … for life! Imagine what it could mean for your child or grandchild … or even you niece or nephew … or your friend’s child…

SleepTalk® is the greatest gift any parent can give a child to establish the child’s core subconscious belief of being unconditionally loved … for life!

So if you or someone you know has a child, who may be struggling emotionally, behaviourally, socially or with school work, then underlying faulty beliefs in the subconscious mind are likely to be the culprit. The Goulding SleepTalk® for Children Process is the answer to replacing these beliefs completely with new positive beliefs that create a firm foundation of feeling unconditionally loved and lovable with high self-esteem and emotional resilience that lasts for life.


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Michelle Mayur is an Accredited Goulding SleepTalk® Consultant at www.unconditionallyloved.com.au and an Amazon #1 Bestselling Author of Embraced by the Divine – The Emerging Woman’s Gateway to Power, Passion and Purpose. Michelle is a Member of the IACT (International Association of Counselors and Therapists) and is passionate about building strong self-esteem and emotional resilience in all children so they can reach their full potential. She also has a special interest in applying the principles of the Goulding SleepTalk® process to people of any age suffering from an ABI (Acquired Brain Injury) and is currently doing research into this. Since 1995, Michelle has been running her successful private practice, Angel Wings Healing, in Melbourne, Australia, and works with clients globally. She has been interviewed on numerous radio shows and telesummits.

Creating the Foundation of Feeling Unconditionally Loved – Part 1

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The Origin of Faulty Beliefs

.Looking back, was your childhood carefree, playful and filled with joy and happy memories? Were your school days some of the happiest days of your life? Even though those are the stereotypes of childhood, the reality is often something vastly different … and may leave us emotionally scarred for life.

For me, my childhood was challenging, even though my parents both seemed loving towards me. One might say that my family was your average dysfunctional family. Basically my parents were good people who were struggling with their own emotional pain and were loving me, their only child, the best way they knew how to. They would readily sacrifice their own wants so that I did not go without things I really needed.

Dad worked hard in the company he started from scratch. He drank equally as hard as a vicious circle escape from Mum’s wrath about him coming home drunk and late most nights. I was always in bed by then, but was woken up by the incessant shouting and arguing. It would go on for seemingly hours. At the weekends Dad escaped to his ‘man cave’ to talk to people around the world on his ham radio equipment, rather than talk to his wife. Mum used me as the pawn in the middle and the power piece against Dad. I felt abandoned and unloved by him.

Both my parents were in their second marriage at a time when divorce was uncommon, especially for the son of a pious Anglican minister. They felt duty-bound to stick together, even though they despised each other. Over and over Mum would tell me that they were only together because of me. What a painful load for any child to bear, believing that I was somehow guilty or to blame for my parents’ distress! Little did Mum or I realize how damaging those repeated comments were to my subconscious mind. I was inadvertently programmed to believe that I was somehow defective or not good enough. This played out for many years as an adult … and required many years of self-healing.

Half boy's face with single tearI know I am not alone in this kind of scenario, repeated many times over in countries around the world. Perhaps the problem stems from learned dysfunctional coping strategies of the parents perpetuated down through the generations that lead to a child’s belief structure being based largely on fear, lack of confidence or a feeling of rejection or inadequacy. It may be something as simple as a parent blurting out words in frustration to their child after a hard day’s work such as, “How could you be so stupid?” (‘Stupid’ is a loaded word that can be especially damaging to a child’s self-esteem and confidence, compounding a belief they are not unconditionally loved.)

Even if your child is ‘asleep’ in the back of the car, at the level of the subconscious mind he or she is still hearing everything that is being said. Oops, do you now remember some of those things you were saying about your child when you thought they couldn’t hear?

Of course it is not just parents who may be to blame for the accidental faulty beliefs that children absorb directly into their subconscious mind, but it can also be the perceived criticisms of teachers and other authority figures, or even peers, siblings and other family members. If these are accepted uncritically as Truth by the subconscious mind, especially before age five, they can set the person up for a lifetime of feeling unloved, rejected, not worthy enough and with low self-esteem. These beliefs may play out in adulthood in such things as settling for second best in such things as choice of partner and in failure to strive to reach full potential.

So if you or someone you know has a child, who may be struggling emotionally, behaviourally, socially or with school work, then underlying faulty beliefs in the subconscious mind are likely to be the culprit. The Goulding SleepTalk® for Children Process is the answer to replacing these beliefs completely with new positive beliefs that create a firm foundation of feeling unconditionally loved and lovable with high self-esteem and emotional resilience that lasts for life.

In my next article I will be sharing more of the details about how the SleepTalk® process actually works and how it changes core beliefs. SleepTalk® has had astounding results for both children and parents around the world for over 40 years.


Michelle Mayur in red top headshot photoMichelle Mayur
is an Accredited Goulding SleepTalk® Consultant at www.unconditionallyloved.com.au and an Amazon #1 Bestselling Author of Embraced by the Divine – The Emerging Woman’s Gateway to Power, Passion and Purpose. Michelle is a Member of the IACT (International Association of Counselors and Therapists) and is passionate about building strong self-esteem and emotional resilience in all children so they can reach their full potential. She also has a special interest in applying the principles of the Goulding SleepTalk® process to people of any age suffering from an ABI (Acquired Brain Injury) and is currently doing research into this. Since 1995, Michelle has been running her successful private practice, Angel Wings Healing, in Melbourne, Australia, and works with clients globally. She has been interviewed on numerous radio shows and telesummits.

You Can Heal Summit

Do you want to reclaim your inner power, have optimum health, and live with vivacious energy

Do you want to HEAL yourself, on your own terms, in a way that you never healed before?   If so, then you may be very interested in this exciting and very informative event that I am participating in – the YOU CAN HEAL! Global Summit, which launches June 1st.

Register to watch me and 20 other experts share the truth that YOU CAN HEAL, through various healing tools, breakthrough techniques, insights, knowledge, and personal healing stories.  Here is your quick and easy way to register and start getting your heal on! http://youcanhealglobalsummit.com/Michelle

EBTD 026: Hypnosis for Accessing Divine Wisdom

Hypnosis for Accessing Divine Wisdom Podcast – Michelle Mayur interviews ROY HUNTER.

Would you like to ask God or your Higher Power a question and receive an immediate answer? Roy Hunter discusses his latest book, The Art of Spiritual Hypnosis, available on Amazon and at www.royhunter.com. It includes over 80 case summaries from highly respected hypnotherapists from around the world. Most of these amazing stories provide food for the soul. Tune in as Roy talks about how and why this book came into existence.

Find Out About:

  1. What is “Spiritual Hypnosis” and how it may be able to help you;
  2. Roy’s latest book The Art of Spiritual Hypnosis to which Michelle has contributed a case study;
  3. Some fascinating case studies from the book;
  4. Why it took two decades for Roy to write this important book;
  5. Guided meditation to establish Sacred Space for healing (Roy’s hypnotic voice is sublime!)
  6. Q&A

Buy “The Art of Spiritual Hypnosis” on Amazon (paperback and Kindle)

and on Roy’s website at http://royhunter.com/hypnosis-books.htm

Roy Hunter was certified as a hypnotherapist by Charles Tebbetts in 1983, and started a practice in the Seattle/Tacoma area. He started teaching his mentor’s 9-month professional hypnosis course in 1987 at Tacoma Community College in Washington (USA) and has taught classes and workshops over the years in 20 different countries. Although recognized for his work with parts therapy and hypnotic regression therapy, Roy teaches courses and gives presentations on other topics as well.

He is the published author of a number of books that come highly praised, including two hypnosis texts based on the work of Charles Tebbetts that are either recommended or required reading at many hypnosis schools around the world. His latest book on spiritual hypnosis was co-authored by over two dozen highly respected hypnotherapapists from around the world.

Roy has received numerous awards through the years, and was recognized for lifetime achievement by three different organizations. He is a Life Diplomate of the International Medical and Dental Hypnotherapy Association (IMDHA), and also a Diplomate of the Association of Professional Hypnosis and Psychotherapy (APHP).
His website is: www.royhunter.com

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EBTD 025: Activate Your Soul Star

“Activate Your Soul Star” Podcast
Michelle Interviews Rev. Dr. Kimberly Marooney.

Working with angels is an amazing experience. They take us to places we could never imagine as they pour wisdom and grace into us. Archangel Gabriel activates your Soul Star in an experience of Divine Love and Grace. You’ll learn more about your Soul Calling and Life Purpose as you experience asking for what you need, then receiving it. You’ll receive the mantle of authority and empowerment to manifest your Soul Calling NOW! No more waiting. The universe is conspiring to support you with everything needed, when it is needed. Get a taste of this experience. “Receive Your Mission” Free Gift at www.KimberlyMarooney.com

Find Out/Experience:

  1. What our Soul Star is and why we would want it activated
  2. Which angels are helping us to step into Divine Love and Divine Light from Source
  3. What our Angel Super Powers are and how we can apply them to life
  4. Angel Message and Guided Meditation for us to “Activate our Soul Star.”

Rev. Dr. Kimberly Marooney wrote the Foreword to Embraced by the Divine. She was blessed with the ability to experience direct personal contact with God angels, and spiritual beings. She was the first person in the world to earn a Master’s degree in Angelology and a Doctorate in Spiritual Psychology. Many of the best know angel experts have sought to learn from her, including Doreen Virtue. Kimberly skillfully combines her 40 years experience as a mystic with her education to guide people into profound, life-changing angel encounters. By following inner guidance, this gifted mystic has authored a dozen books including best-selling Angel blessings Cards and founded TheAngelMinistry.com Most recently, Kimberly was appointed President of Gateway University.

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Delight Your Creative Senses!

Let Your Inner Child Run Free!

Join me in my Melbourne garden for this wonderfully unique and creative PLAYSHOP.

(Actual photo of a small part of my garden below.)
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EBTD 024: Energy Healing for Your Abundance Audio

Embraced by the Divine Collaborators Helaine Harris and Brenda Pearce Interview
(From The Money Breakthrough Summit for Spiritual Entrepreneurs)
The tools of grace: Prayer, Reiki and the Law of Tithing.

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40 Year Old Melbourne Woman Ditches Her Anti-Depressants after Just 1 Session!

True Case History

Sandra (not her real name), a 40 year old woman from the eastern suburbs of Melbourne, saw me for two healing sessions in 2009. At the time she had been suffering with depression on and off since her late teens and it was the third time she had been taking anti-depressants for an extended period.

She had been struggling with her own insecurities in romantic relationships and of needing “proof” of commitment, such as excessive reassurance, from her partner. Her parents had separated when Sandra was in her teens.

For her first session, I used Angel-Guided Energy Healing to address her depression. This also included moving a couple of sad, ‘distressed souls’ that were with her to the Light. (Yes, I know this may sound a bit ‘woo-woo’ to you, but the attachment of energy-draining distressed souls is surprisingly common in cases of chronic depression, phobias and chronic fatigue.)

For her second session with me a few weeks later, she was delighted to tell me she had been feeling fantastic since her previous session and had weaned herself off the anti-depressants completely! (I always recommend this be done in consultation with the prescribing doctor.) Using Hypnotherapy, a Resistance Bridge Technique and some Gestalt work, I assisted her to delve deeply into accessing the initial sensitising event for her insecurities in relationships with men. Upon retest, her original feelings of a tight throat and heartache were reduced to zero and she was able to review the initial sensitizing event in her mind in complete comfort. She was also given empowering techniques she could use at home.

Recently I happened to see Sandra again and now, 7 years later, she has never gone back onto anti-depressants!

If you would like to find out more about the healing and empowering work I do, I invite you to check out my updated website www.angelwings-healing.com to see all of my services, including Energy Scans, Angel-Guided Energy Healing, Hypnotherapy, Goddess Activation of the Healing Heart and Soul Retrieval Therapy.

You are always most welcome to use the Contact Form on this website or to phone me on 0421977193 or (03) 9888 0138
for a chat about how I can best assist you with my Healing Services.

PS: If you haven’t already purchased your copy of my inspirational book for women, Embraced by the Divine – The Emerging Woman’s Gateway to Power, Passion and Purpose, grab the Kindle version at http://www.amazon.com/dp/B018FCGJDQ
or phone me to get a personally-signed Softcover version within Australia.

 

EBTD 023: Angel Encounters in Everyday Life

Collaborator Brenda Pearce Interviews Michelle Mayur on the E Factor Network

Enjoy!

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EBTD 022: Discover Your Soul’s Purpose

Two Embraced by the Divine Collaborators Together! Helaine Harris Interviews Christine Kloser
(From The Money Breakthrough Summit for Spiritual Entrepreneurs)
Liberate your true soul’s expression, discover your gifts and share them with the world.

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